The ultimate sacrifice.
He asked his sister what she would would think about seeing her daughter that day. Stacie’s eyes popped open and she began looking around to find her.
Soon the nurses arrived with Dottie Mae and laid her right on her mother’s chest. The two stared into each other’s eyes for several minutes.
‘Nobody said anything, it got real quiet,’ Ray told NewsOk. ‘I told my sister, ‘You have done a beautiful thing.’ It was the perfect moment, that’s what I called it.’
Stacie died three days later. Her funeral was on September 14.
Her obituary on the Dudley Funeral Homes website reads: ‘Dottie Mae was the light of her life and her greatest accomplishment. She chose to give this baby life instead of taking treatment for herself.’
Dottie Mae now lives with Ray, his wife Jennifer and their four children in their Oklahoma City home
‘I think she’s a miracle. I just want to do right by her and do what Stacie asked,’ Jennifer said.
via Stacie Crimm refuses chemotherapy so her unborn daughter Dottie Mae can live.
Then there is the other side of the coin, where life has little value.
Four adults with the mental capacity of 10-year-olds were found chained in a “dungeon” inside a house in Philadelphia, authorities said Saturday.
A janitor discovered the captives – three men and one woman – shackled to a water heater, according to the Philadelphia Inquirer. They were found in a 15-by-15 room where they had been locked behind a steel door.
Authorities described them as malnourished and living in “deplorable” conditions. The room also had several buckets filled with urine and feces.
The four were being held by at least three people who were stealing their disability checks, authorities said.
The unidentified suspects – one woman and two men – have been arrested but not formally charged.
“We’re going to find every crime possible in the crime code to put on these individuals,” Philadelphia police spokesperson Lt. Ray Evers told the Inquirer.
Possible charges include kidnapping, conspiracy, and aggravated assault, he said.
The names of the victims have not been released, and it is unclear where they come from.
It is believed the four – who range in age from 29 to 41 – were originally from Texas. They were recently taken from Texas to West Palm Beach, Florida, where they lived for at least a year, before arriving in Philadelphia in Oct. 4. Authorities, however, are not sure if the victims actually lived in Texas, or if that was merely another place their kidnappers stashed them.
“We have no idea who some of these people are,” Evers said, but noted that because of their mental handicaps getting information from them has been difficult.
via 4 adults with mental capacity of 10-year-olds found chained in ‘dungeon’ in Philadelphia: cops. They have made arrests, but nothing imo can make up for the disgusting behavior that took place. And if you are truly a glutton for punishment…2 year old child run over twice and no one stops to help.
October 17, 2011 at 8:55 pm
Priorities. Some people have selfless detrmination to give to others and pay the ultimate price of giving their life in exchange. A tragedy that should give many in this world perspective, and guide them in rearranging what is REALLY important in their lives.
Then there are the others, the ones who subsist off others in a most perverse and inhumane manner. The ones whose judgment time has not come soon enough, to pay for their despicable ways.
October 17, 2011 at 9:27 pm
Beautifully said, Crier. Thanks.
October 18, 2011 at 6:15 am
One word says it all, “priorities.” I watched that beautiful little two year old girl run over and no one cared. The world is upside down.
October 17, 2011 at 9:26 pm
Rest well, Stacie. You did a good thing.
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I have a twenty says the monsters are made to seem like the victims of society.
October 18, 2011 at 6:16 am
Unfortunately, yes Mary.
October 17, 2011 at 9:35 pm
That is one of the most beautiful and selfless acts I’ve ever heard.
October 18, 2011 at 6:13 am
It really is Anthony. An unbelievable act of love.
October 18, 2011 at 10:05 am
God knows I have tried to instill appreciation in my children for the sacrifices we made, and all parents make, in order to bring them into the world, nothing we did compares with this though!
Let’s hope the child will be brought up to appreciate the saintly sacrifice her mother made and do something meaningful and beneficial with her life!
October 18, 2011 at 12:22 pm
Tommy, I am sure that this child is considered a blessing to the brother and wife. She will be loved dearly and a daily reminder of what a selfless act truly is. I can’t imagine that she will not know what an incredible gift her mother gave to her. It’s not the amount of time we have together, but how it is spent. That short amount of time spent between them surely was nothing short of a universe filled with infinite love. Some of us will never know that gift. Some of us understand that gift only too well.
October 18, 2011 at 3:26 pm
Poetry, McN, and most moving.
October 18, 2011 at 11:43 am
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b016d7hz
Add this to the glutton for punishment file.
October 18, 2011 at 12:23 pm
That is heartbreaking Nom. So much sadness.
October 20, 2011 at 7:36 pm
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2049647/BBC-documentary-exposes-50-year-scandal-baby-trafficking-Catholic-church-Spain.html
They have raised the number to a potential 300,000 babies trafficked.
October 21, 2011 at 6:39 am
I hope that those babies had a better life than the Philly assholes gave those kids that were kidnapped. I suspect that the time frame was much longer than fifty years.
The church has always taken in throwaway children. It’s odd because for many Hispanic couples, adoption is not a first option. Stealing children will never cease Nom. It is an act of desperation that has been practiced since the beginning of time. Horrible.
October 21, 2011 at 5:02 pm
“I suspect that the time frame was much longer than fifty years.”
I would not be surprised, yet i am a bit surprised at the scope of this, and that it has not come to light before now.
But the article made it plain it wasn’t abandoned babies, but stolen babies.
I have mentioned before I am a hillbilly. When my mother was having her second child the doctors wanted her to go on the pill; they told her, very snidely in tone “You’ll be back here in a year if you don’t.” Because even though my father was already at this time a college graduate, very well employed and able to afford multiple children, and the 2 children were well spaced apart (over 3 years) that was the stereotype: ignorant inbred hillbillies, popping out babies like puppies. These are the kinds of people from whom doctors, nurses, and the church feel no compunction about stealing their babies.
October 23, 2011 at 5:35 pm
Ah Nom, they said that to all the Hispanic women here. Actually, they are still saying that.
October 23, 2011 at 7:34 pm
A**holes.
October 23, 2011 at 8:36 pm
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/09/world/americas/argentinas-daughter-of-dirty-war-raised-by-man-who-killed-her-parents.html?ref=argentina
And here is another case, I found this when looking up the Argentina election results